part 2
The past:
1- Pick up the unhappy things and learn it thru
2- Dont look backwards, future is more crucial
3- Change the world. Make it your way
Now:
1- Rich Tai-Tai ( I still want to marry you and the bunch of kids still miss you)
2- Stable career
3- Settle down have our own house
For Nic fom Nic:
1- Build up confident in r/s
2- Dont be stuborn
3- Know the priority
4- Be supportive and encouraging
5- Be straight forward and never be ashame to share
For Gab from Nic:
1- Be more open
2- Dont give up easily
3- Quit bad habit (smoke and timing)
4- Be more responsible for future bulding
5- Do not roar and be more gentle
A passionate person fueled by love is a force that no one can defeat. If you do still passinate over this r/s, please follw the instruction below:
A) NO, Let's get our own life.
Please close the window. Thank you for your visit and Have a great 2010 ahead.
B) Yes, I have hope & show me something.
Please scroll down and see what you would expect to receive from me.
"Simple let you 'Yes' be 'Yes', and your 'No' be 'No'; anything beyond this comes from the eveil one"
Part 1: Expectation - Seeing is believing
1- Low confident
I love to tell the whole world about you and me. Coz im proud to have you! I care about your existence. People love to see us bloom.
Solution: Action speaks louder. Let me show you how it works. Yes? Yes? Secret ingredient!
2- Careless personality
I have short term memory. But this time I will make sure I will change.
Solution: Constant reminder and practise make my memory bigger & stronger. Action speaks louder. I will act fast, so you wont clap with one hand.
3- King Size VS Our own space
I know I neglected your feeling. I am sorry. Mama understands how i feel coz we talk thru it. U are the true love.
Solution: I wont force you to go family trip (king size space). But I do hope you will try to attend family event with me. Respect them and I hope you can be part of the family close to them. Let them know I can rely on you. I will stand by you, my king. Family outing i make sure we will have our own space. Not outsider allowed! *Who lets the dog out! woof woof*
4- Connection with truth - Respect your privacy
I know you need your own space to breath. Let me build up your confident again and I hope by then you will give more in return. When timing is good, things fall in place by itself.
Solution: You will have your freedom. Please inform me your plan so I wont disturb you. I will get somethg to do. But make sure you are safe.
5- Money and Career
I know you have unstable career for now and you hope to build that up and the fulfillment is what you are looking for. Go ahead! I back you up! But no more relying on your parent. I dislike that feeling. You have me!! Encourage one another and build each other up.
Solution: I will work hard and save money. Incase you need money and we can still afford to have good meal sometimes. We work together! I will get more freelance to get more money. But I will make sure I rest enough and eat well.
6- Worries & Tension
I know you constanly worry about me. I felt that way too. I know how you feel now and it is just restless and too much too handle.
Solution: I will not do anything that cause you uneasy. I will make sure I balance everytning out and make sure you know my plan before even proceeding them. This is mutual respect and make sure everything is safe. As you know my parent worry about me being alone here and dont know how to take care of myself.
7- Support and courage
No more emo or dull mood. If you want to do, I will back you up and support you all the way. Respect you as a man and know you can take care of everything.
Solution: No matter good or bad outcome, no regret no complain. Take everything in life a learning path. Being supportive and encouraging will make you feel least presure.
8- Last but not least - Principle
Our hearts are to be open to each other. How do I want you to treat me, in return, I must do it first!
Solution: My friends. I make sure you know all of them. (part of the confidence building). They do have names and yes and I will tell you who they are. I will treat you well, coz i need someone to treat me well too. I will not be ashame to tell you things, how much I love you, if i jealous, if i feel uneasy and be more open for ideas.
Unchecked: Disconnection, defensiveness, control, immaturity, and selfishness. they have the power to infect an entire r/s, they can harm or even end a connection.
What I want and need:
1- Respond -Confrontation serves as a wake up call. if you dont respond and take action, we can only stay in sms. I feel cold. If you are not ready or I would love to hear from you about what you wish to have from me. I sincerely love to know that. It will serves as part of motivation.
2- Support - really need your support in moving forward. Hope we can go a level up and physical and mentally support is crucial to me.
3- Courage - in order for me to bring you more confidence, I need courage. I still feel weak and without your acknowledgement, i have no direction and i do not know what you are thinking. I am lost! Totally helpless.
4- Assurance - I hope after everything you will not be hesitate to give. I would love and appreciate that.
5- Understanding - I have my fear in this r/s. but I hope you will give and continue to be supportive. Need your constant understanding to help to build a better me and our future together. I will heal my wound until yours are healed and settled.
"Give until it hurts, coz real love hurts"
What if i failed to delivery again?
1- I will give up whatever in Singapore and leave after next year.
2- You can have all the kids with you. So that I wont malu each one of you.
